Convo I just had with my dad
hey I'm gonna go grocery shopping do you need anything?
contemplates wether or not I should ask him to get me pads since I need them desperately
uh... Yeah.... Can you get me some pads
Are you serious? Wouldn't you be embarrassed?
Natalie, I'm a 56 year old man who has been buying pads for your mother for over 20 years. No I'm not embarrassed.
But I thought guys get squirmish when we ask them to buy this stuff for us
boys are squirmish. Men will step out and buy you as many pads and tampons as you need. A man will understand that you cannot control your cycle and that this is a natural bodily process. So, if you ever find a guy who's too embarrassed to buy you pad just bleed on everything he owns.
The one that is meant for us is going to be the hardest to get, the hardest to keep, and the hardest to accept because through all that the love will grow stronger. Love wasn’t made to be easy, otherwise we wouldn’t end up with the right person. We would end up with the first one who comes along. By struggling we single out the wrong ones and realize who really is the one.
People will talk about you when they envy you and the life you lead. Let them. You affected their life, don’t let them affect yours.
Don’t leave something good to find something better. Once you realize you had the best, the best has found better.